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【子育てがツライ！私もめっちゃ大変だった！】だからこそ今言える。日本中の全ママに送る！２人目育児を乗り切る３つのポイント

2020年6月17日

先日、２人目の子が満３歳になりました。

その名前のとおり、いつもニコニコ人の真ん中にいて、人と人とを結びつけてくれる。

子育ての苦手なわたし、２人目がこの子じゃなかったらきっとあっという間に破綻してたと思う。
いい感じに手放すことを教えてもらって、ねばならないがドンドンなくなって、
わたし自身も夫婦関係も家族としての在り方も何度もOSをバージョンアップさせてきた３年間だったな。

全力で楽しむ。
全力で大好き。
全力で世界と人は愛で溢れていると信じて疑わず歩んでいくその小さな小さな後ろ姿に、いつも勇気と希望を見せてもらってる。

一緒に育ててくれてるみんなホントにありがとうね〜！これからも彼が彼らしく進めるよう、そっと見守っていてください。

きっと人生で最も変革の必要な2人目育児の３年間があっという間に過ぎたことに、安堵と若干の淋しさと、次なるステージへのワクワクした気持ちが錯綜する2020夏至までもう少し。私のこれからも引き続き見守ってくださーい！

というわけで、この前も４人いるママ友とも「0-1人よりも、2-3人よりも圧倒的に1-2人に増える瞬間が一番大変だった」って話をしていました。

思えば、直後と比べて今はものすごく楽になった子育て。
それもこれも苦しんだり悩んだりしたからなんだけど。

自分なりに導き出した２人目育児を乗り切るポイント、整理して話してみました。
２人目が産まれたばっかりなんて人はきっとこの時間は、寝かしつけの真っ最中かと思うけど
今真っ只中でしんどい思いをしている人に届いたらいいなぁってそんな気持ちを込めて話しました。

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